Bollywood superstar Shah Rukh Khan says actors and those in the entertainment industry should allow their work to speak for themselves and not get carried away by how people interpret seemingly innocuous comments. Khan, 50, came under attack on Social Media in early November after bemoaning what he described as …Read More »
Bollywood Superstar Shah Rukh Khan received an honorary doctorate from the University of Edinburgh on Thursday for his outstanding contribution to cinema and his charitable initiatives.
“‘Humbled’ is a word often used by people in my profession”, Shah Rukh said.
“I dislike the hypocritically obsequious connotation of it in these contexts so I’m not going to use it, but I will say that such occasions have a way of putting me right in my place”.
It was a good start.
Whilst his movies often defy logic and common sense, ‘King Khan’ showed just why he is held in such high esteem around the world with a fantastically erudite and self-deprecating speech.
Here are some of the highlights:
“I get invited to conferences and inaugurations now and then to speak. When I receive the invitations, I also receive my brief. It’s usually about “success” and my “tips” on it - not my toes - those are covered by the “I will never show my toes” clause in my acting contracts. It’s my attempt at gender equality. My co-stars have no nipple clauses; I have a no toes one.”
“Most people believe Bollywood stars aren’t insightful about anything other than the fateful occurrences that made them stars in the first place! I’ve had the odd divergence from being taken for stupid though; recently I got an email from the International Association of Advertising. It read, ‘Dear Mr. Khan, The advertising community would like you to address them on Globalization and disruptive marketing’. I spent the next 4 hours on Google trying to assimilate the “disruptiveness” of innovating a product to match its market But it was one of those rare days when even Google can’t help you. A day when you need to leave Google and ask God for deliverance.”
“One of the subjects on the list of five I was sent for my speech today was: ‘Life Lessons’ so for what it’s worth: here goes. Let me start at the very beginning. Whatever I have learnt of life has been at the movies. Actually the first few films that I did in my career and their titles very nearly have formulated all that I believe one should pass on as ‘Life Lessons’ to students of a prestigious institution like yours. One of the first movies of my career was a movie called ‘Deewana’. I fall in love with a widow, who I meet literally by accident in which I very nearly kill her mother in law. I marry her. Not the mother in law but the widow. The widow is not keen on the marriage because she still loves her late husband but she marries me anyway. My rich mean father disapproves of this union and does what a mean rich father does - tries to kill the widow. I am naturally disgusted by his behaviour and after a long two page stand-off with him I leave the house for good. Then for some reason apart from the fact that I ride my motorcycle without holding the handlebar I have an accident. Seeing me so forlorn and sad in the hospital bed my ex-widow wife falls in love with me. There is something about sick men that always attracts women to them. The sicker the better. Then again by a chance of fate I rescue a stranger at night from a bunch of goons, and guess what?? He turns out to be the original husband of my ex-widow wife, who hadn’t died in spite of his inheritance hungry uncle’s best efforts. Evil uncle then kidnaps me and my ex widow now not so ex-present day wife to get hold of his nephew. I escape his clutches and come back with my wife’s un-dead husband to rescue her. By now she is strapped to a bomb and after a liberal round of fist fighting kicking and screaming the evil uncle is blown to smithereens by the very same bomb that he had strapped on the confused lady of the film. But not before the sacrificial ex-husband has done a kamikaze, un-strapping his ex-wife and set the bomb off killing himself in the bargain. All obstacles removed, our hero lives happily ever after with his beloved wife.
I’m not sure why the movie was called ‘Deewana’ (which in Hindi means madness of a particularly nice/romantic kind) but I have a feeling it had something to do with the guy who came up with the plot! So, here’s my first life lesson, inspired by the movie title ‘Deewana’: Madness (of the particularly nice/romantic kind) is an absolute prerequisite to a happy and successful life. Don’t ever treat your little insanities as if they are aberrations that ought to be hidden from the rest of the world. Acknowledge them and use them to define your own way of living the only life you have. There’s no such thing as ‘normal’. That’s just another word for lifeless.”
“Soon after ‘Deewana’, I became the hapless hero of a movie called ‘Chamatkar’. This movie had a more believable plot line. I get cheated off all my money by my best friend/conman and find myself asleep in a cemetery only to be awakened by the ghost of a murdered mobster. A ghost that only I can see and nobody else. I am very perceptive that way. Anyway the mobster ghost helps me get a job as a teacher through his ghostly good offices. I fall in love with his daughter from a wife that has passed on after being duped by his flunky. Together, the ghost and I organize a cricket match, yes I was doing that even before I owned a cricket team, and avenge the various misdeeds done to us by bashing up the flunky and the conman, forgive them and let each other descend into the respective abodes where we belong. He goes back to the grave and I go away with the babe. Now ‘Chamatkar’, means miracle: right and straightforward without any nuances. So, my next lesson is the following: If you ever find yourself cheated of all your money and sleeping on a grave, do not fear, a miracle is near, either that or a ghost. In other words, no matter how bad it gets, life IS the miracle you are searching for.”
“This brings me to my third life lesson inspired by two movies in which I played the anti-hero: ‘Darr’ and ‘Baazigar’. Twenty years ago, in the Indian movie industry, roles were very clearly defined. They provided the security of your stardom in a sense. If you’d been successful playing an ‘angry young man’, you’d pretty much be angry and young for the rest of your career. If you’d been a police inspector in three movies, odds were, you’d be one in the next 33 too. This applied to female stars as well: wives were wives, seductresses-seductresses, mothers-in-law mothers-in-law and so on. Few actors would have willingly switched from romantic heroes to obsessively violent lovers. I took the leap…not because I was particularly brave, but because (a very dear director friend of mine sat me down and told me I was ugly. And being ugly necessarily meant I do bad guy roles. I wasn’t the romantic hero types, he said, actually he used the words, ‘your face is not chocolaty enough’. So, I started to eat a lot of chocolate and while waiting for it to take effect, I jumped into bad guy roles. ‘Darr’ means fear in Hindi and everyone always tells you that you ought to be brave so I’m not going to bore you with that idea. Instead let me tell you this: Being brave means being shit scared all the way to the party but getting there and doing the Funky Chicken in front of all your teenage kid’s friends anyway. Let me just add on behalf of all the fathers of the world who have embarrassed their children by doing this…it takes a lot of bravery. resolve and grit to do this. So do it. Don’t let your fears become boxes that enclose you. Open them out, feel them and turn them into the greatest courage you are capable of. I promise you, nothing will go wrong
“I did a movie once called ‘Kabhi Haan Kabhi Naa’, in which I was the victim of a lover’s confusions and my next lesson is precisely that. It’s ok to be confused. Confusion is the route to all the clarity in the world. Don’t worry about it too much and don’t ever take yourself seriously enough to be so clear about your own ideas that you stop respecting other people’s. Our values are our values, they don’t make us any better than anyone else, at best they make us different. Always try to see the other person’s truth because like every movie has a story, every human being has one too and you have no right to imagine that yours is better than anyone else’s. You can leave that silliness to my esteemed colleagues and me.”
“And if you thought these two stories were crazy, here’s another one in the reckoning for the Oscars for weirdest screenplay: ‘Guddu’. Guddu was my name in a movie about loving and giving in which basically, I have an accident (yes another one) but this time instead of almost wiping out my future mother-in-law, I wipe out my girlfriend’s eyes. Many convoluted sub-plots including a life threatening brain tumour, a legal battle for the right to donate organs and a fast unto death, my lawyer father, my religious mother and I are battling over which one of us will donate our eyes to my blind girlfriend. In the end, I recover miraculously and my mother dies donating her eyes to my girlfriend and we all live happily ever after. Life lesson number four: Give of yourself to others. And while you’re at it, make sure you realise that you aren’t doing anyone any favours by being kind. It’s all just to make you feel that sneaky little twinge that comes from being utterly pleased with yourself. After all, the one that gets the most benefit out of any act of kindness or charity that you do will always be you. I don’t say this, as many see it, in a transactive or karmic way. Its not an “I do good, I get benefit equation with some white bearded figure taking notes from the heavens above. It’s a simple truth. An act of goodness becomes worthless when you assign a brownie point to yourself for it, no matter how subtly you allow yourself to do so. Regardless of how rich, successful and famous you become, don’t ever underestimate the grace that other people bestow upon you just by being the recipients of your kindnesses.”
“Sometimes things just happen, as encapsulated in another movie title of mine: ‘Kuch Kuch Hota Hai’ and you know what? They don’t always add up (that would be ‘One Two Ka four’ as the list of titles continues). So my fifth lesson is this: when life hits you with all the force of its resplendent rage, the Rolls Royce isn’t going to give you comfort. A friend’s grace will, and if you can’t find resolution as easily as you would like to, don’t panic. Everything evolves as you go along, ‘Chalte Chalte’ as we say in Hindi.
“Even disasters eventually resolve themselves. Give life the space to move at its own pace, pushing it ahead only by way of being kind to yourself when you are hurting or in despair. You don’t always have to figure things out or find an explanation for the circumstances you are in. It’s more prudent to accept that sometimes there just isn’t one. ‘Ram Jaane’ (God knows), as we say in Hindi and as a priest responded to my orphan-child character when I asked him, what my name was, in a movie of the same appellation. The boy plodded through three entire hours of film referring to himself by that fatalistic phrase and why not? Who says that what we call ourselves is any definition of who we really are? And that’s lesson number six for you: All the names you give yourself, or those that others call you, are just labels. You are not defined by them no matter how flattering or uncomplimentary they are. What defines you is your heart.”
“If you aren’t charged up about doing something, if you don’t have what in Hindi we call the “Josh”, the fire in your belly for it, then don’t do it. It’s a waste of your time and more importantly, of those who pin their hopes on your endeavours too. Redefine yourself if you have to but do it on your own terms and just get on with it. In fact, like my character in the movie ‘My Name is Khan’, don’t forget where you came from and who you really are. It ought to be the compass by which you navigate through life’s vicissitudes. The North that keeps you oriented despite a series of misfortunes or a shower of privilege.’
“One of the biggest hits I made was an unexpected one and for once the plot was neither meandering nor barking mad. I was the coach of a beleaguered women’s hockey team that went on to overcome its struggles and win a world championship. Its title was ‘Chak De’, an inspirational martial cry that Sikh soldiers used while lifting logs in order to make bridges across rivers on their campaigns against their enemies. It implies the will to get up and get on with it, which brings me to life lesson number seven: whatever it is that is pulling you back, it’s not going away unless you stand up and start forging your own path with all your might in the opposite direction. Stop whining and start moving, so to speak. Sadness and happiness have the same quality of transience. Life is a balanced exchange of one with the other.
“And this is lesson number eight: Don’t attach yourself to either - they’re both going to change with the same certitude. Take them with the ephemeral spirit of their impermanence and manage them with a healthy dose of good humour. Laugh at yourself when you are despairing, shed a tear or two when one of my movie plots makes you hysterical with laughter (we did actually consider ‘Guddu’ donating a single eye to his blind girlfriend and both of them waltzing into the sunset eye patch to eye patch).
“‘Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham’ was the title of an Indian style family drama in which I was one of many heroes and it means just that: to be happy sometimes, and sad others, is the very beauty of a life lived in full measure. Why fail yourself by desiring one emotion and detesting the other?”
“Live from the heart. ‘Dil Se.’ Love. Love people, love the world around you, love animals and birds, and big cities and mountains, love dreams, love life, love your work, your friends and your enemies even if you feel least like it. Most importantly, my friends; love yourselves. Embrace all that this life has in store for you, let your heart be as deep as the deepest ocean and as wide as the farthest horizon. Know that it is limitless.”
“You never know what the future will bring, whether there will be a tomorrow or not. I died at a shockingly young age in a movie called ‘Kal Ho Na Ho’ which means exactly that. And I wasn’t even a smoker!!! I never let my two older children watch it to the end, we even filmed a whole alternate ending especially for them. But now they have grown up and like all of you, will soon be embarking on a wondrous journey of their own. Instead of trying to protect them from life, the wiser and older version of me grabs every chance to tell them: live as hard as you can in this very moment. Live now. Live today. You may not see it with your youthful eyes, but NOW is as much a time as you will ever get. Because tomorrow we will all be dead. And just in case there is no cycle of rebirth etc…why take a chance?”
After inspiring those gathered, SRK had this to say:
“Now all you bored professors out there in the first row, come on up: lets do the Lungi Dance!!!”
Bollywood veteran Naseeruddin Shah claims he has been targeted by Social Media users over his support for a Pakistani author because he is a Muslim.
Shah was repeatedly trolled on Twitter on Wednesday after he urged people in India to extend the same kind of welcome to Pakistanis visiting India as Indians travelling to Pakistan.
Speaking at the Mumbai launch of a book by former Pakistani foreign minister Khurshid Mahmud Kasuri – whose visit to the city has angered the likes of the Hindu nationalist Shiv Sena – Shah said: “I went to Pakistan several times but never has a performance been disrupted, disturbed or even threatened. I have never had to carry any security.”
Khurshid’s presence in the city has angered the powerful Shiv Sena group which claims that Pakistanis should not be allowed in India owing to what it says is Pakistan’s support of terror groups that have carried out attacks in India and continued tensions in Kashmir.
Khurshid’s visit to Mumbai was organized by the independent think tank Observer Research Foundation whose chairman Sudheendra Kulkarni was attacked and had black paint thrown on him by Shiv Sena activists on Monday.
Speaking at the book launch, Shah added: “I wish we could have accorded Khurshid Mahmud Kasuri the kind of welcome I received when I visited Lahore. I would only like to tell hate-mongers and those who prefer confrontation over debate and discussion that they look for the differences between India and Pakistan rather than the similarities.”
Scores of people took to Twitter to attack Shah with some even calling him a terrorist sympathizer.
A visibly upset Shah then appeared on a national TV channel to claim that his religion was behind the attacks.
“My name is Naseeruddin Shah and I believe that’s why I was targeted. It really pains me to say this. I have never ever been aware of my identity until now. Four generations of my family have lived in India. I am proud to be an Indian and I will not allow anybody to question my patriotism.”
He also questioned why praising anything about Pakistan is deemed to be ‘anti-Indian’, saying, “If I say Imran Khan is great, does that make Sunil Gavaskar any less of a cricketer?”
The award-winning actor was asked if he would follow the example of the writers who had returned the national ‘Sahitya Akadmi’ awards in protest at growing intolerance and attacks on intellectuals.
“Awards mean nothing to me and therefore I won’t bother returning them. I wish those writers, instead of returning their awards, had written more strongly on what is happening to India in protest”, Shah said.
Ironically enough, Kasuri’s book is described as the first “comprehensive” account by a Pakistani Foreign Minister who contributed to moving the peace process with India forward.
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That cohesion 'King' SRK brings to the world of cinema fans was acknowledged by no less an august institution as the House of Commons this week when the 48-year-old superstar was awarded the Commons' 'Global Diversity Award' in recognition for his achievements in cinema and his charitable activities.
Khan, who was in town for a promotional blitz ahead of the release of his new film 'Happy New Year', was presented with the honour during a ceremony at the Palace of Westminster on Saturday attended by speaker John Bercow and Leicester East MP Keith Vaz.
Mr Bercow described Khan as a "very special person" who had "achieved so much but has found the time to give back as well".
“He has already featured in several films and won 14 Filmfare awards out of 30 he was nominated including eight best actor awards. He is also active in the fields of charity, particularly helping women who have suffered acid attacks,” Mr Bercow added.
Khan said it was a "big honour".
“This is a special day for me and I am very humbled to receive the award instituted by Rainbow Foundation. My first visit to England was when I was 27 in connection with the first film ‘Baazigar’. I have got lot more than I deserved.”
He said the award would inspire him to work harder, particularly for the benefit of those on the margins of society.
“I will try to do in a small away, whatever I can,” he said.
Mr Vaz, founder of the Rainbow Foundation, said, “Shah Rukh Khan is regarded as one of the most famous actors on planet earth.”
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