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#Tragic: Model hanged herself worried her Muslim parents would force her into marriage.

A “promising” and “beautiful” model who suffered from bouts of depression and self-harm took her own life fearing that her strict Muslim parents would force her into an arranged marriage, an inquest in Manchester has heard.

Nadia Menaz, 24, had already married in an Islamic ceremony which was not recognized under English law and the family did not approve of her husband.

The mother of one was had suffered severe depression and frequently self-harmed due to the difficult relationship with her parents.

She eventually took out a court order to stop her mother and father and three siblings parents forcing her into another marriage.

Five months later she was found hanged at her home in Oldham, Manchester.

Earlier the hearing was told Mrs Menaz – the second youngest child of five sisters and three brothers – had been a former army cadet and harboured ambitions of joining the police but after she left home at 16, she began modelling, arranged photoshoots for other models and worked as a wedding planner and flower arranger.

She first met her husband – 25-year-old Umar Rasool – in 2010 and the pair began dating but were forced to keep their relationship secret from her parents. 

They eventually married in an Islamic ceremony in April 2011 before Mrs Menaz gave birth to a daughter in March 2012.

Last December 5 Mrs Menaz took out a forced marriage protection order at the Family Court in Manchester against her father Sabir Hussain, 60, and her mother Ruksana Kousar, 55, and three of her eight siblings.  The orders protect women if they are being threatened with a forced marriage or are already in a forced marriage.

At the hearing Mr Hussain and Mrs Kousar denied attempting to force Miss Menaz into marriage and initially claimed they were unaware of the forced marriage protection order.  But under questioning they admitted they were aware of the order – and then claimed her daughter had been murdered by a “third party”.

Coroner Simon Nelson said Mr Hussain had made it clear in a statement to police he had issues over her relationship with Mr Rasool.  Speaking through an interpreter Mr Hussain told the Oldham hearing: “Once she got married there was no point in having issues.  He used to assault her physically.  They used to have a lot of arguments at home.

“When I found out about the marriage protection order I was still in contact with her and totally shocked. I don’t believe my daughter killed herself. All of her life I never realised and never sensed it that she was having any problems that could cause her death this way. I think my daughter has been killed and she has not died in the way described.”

Mr Hussain claimed that since her death he had received text messages from Nadia’s phone number which said: “Nadia has passed away but now it’s your turn. You are going to be next.”

Mrs Kousar said: “Nadia was already married and she had a daughter as well so there was no point of having this forced marriage protection order.”

Mrs Menaz’s cousin Mohammad Nakash Ali, said: “She was quite distressed about quite a few things. It was mostly her family from what she told me and she had a quarrel with her husband which is normal with every relationship.

“She was stressed about her future and relationship and family and business and children. She vocalised her problems with her family in terms of her brother and relationship with her father and siblings.

In the weeks before her death Mrs Menaz underwent psychiatric treatment at Royal Oldham Hospital but was later discharged.

On the day of her death on May 1, she had an argument with Mr Rasool who then went to see his family and go to their local mosque.

She sent him a text saying she was going to hang herself and when he returned home at around 6.30pm he found his wife’s body.

Police investigations ruled out third party involvement.  A post-mortem confirmed a cause of death as hanging and also noted 60 wounds to her thigh that appeared to be self-inflicted.

Mr Rasool agreed with coroner Simon Nelson that Nadia’s family “weren’t particularly happy with the fact of their relationship” and added: “I was aware of the forced marriage protection order. She was being treated in hospital because of her depression and her life.

Mr Nelson asked Mr Rasool: “It has been suggested by family members that a third party was responsible for Nadia’s death. Were you in any way involved in either an altercation or alternatively the act of causing Nadia to be placed in the position you saw her when you returned?”

Mr Rasool responded: “I had no involvement”.

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